Facts & theories about relationships

Facts & theories about relationships

​What makes the difference between a terrific relationship and a miserable one? Experienced couple counsellors share their wisdom. We have a look at what relationship researchers and writers can tell us.

​About Relationships That Work
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Couple disagreements are normal

Almost all couples (78%) experience some ongoing disagreements according to a survey conducted by Relationships Aotearoa. “Even in the happiest, longest lasting of relationships, couples disagree,” said Hilary Smith of Relationships Aotearoa. “And most people do learn to deal with them.”
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Couple disagreements are normal
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Good relationship important for satisfying sex

New Zealander’s relationships are thriving, and a satisfying sex life is an important contributor, according to a survey released by Relationships Aotearoa. 67% of people said they were satisfied with the sexual aspects of their relationship, while 83% were satisfied with their relationship overall.
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Relationship and Sex​

Lend your Partner an Ear

“It makes such a difference when you really listen and hear what your partner is saying,” says Hal Kennedy, experienced Relationship Counsellor.
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Listening to your partner

Relationships Survey

New Zealand couples are thriving, according to a nationwide survey by counselling agency Relationships Aotearoa. The on-line survey of 1,000 New Zealanders, conducted by ACNielsen, showed 82% place very high importance on partner relationships and 64% find them very satisfying.
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Relationships Survey

Relationships: Does Advice Help?

Everyone’s got an opinion about relationships, but does advice really help?
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Relationship Advice

How ready are you for a committed relationship?

When you’re wondering whether your relationship is a good candidate for a long-term commitment there’s a lot to take into account. This checklist focuses on maturity in a number of different areas.
Committed Relationships